So, yesterday left me pretty drained, emotionally. It all started with a phonecall from his lawyer, a phonecall that I SHOULD have seen coming.
A bit o f the backstory: Monday I got served, that night I took myself and the girls to myself to my mom's to stay. This meant that by the time the phonecall came, he hadn't seen them in a couple of days. Why did I take them away? I found out, for sure, that he had bugged the house, which is illegal even if it's his house. I don't want nor do I need to be recorded. I was done.
Anyway, this particular phonecall was to inform me that we were going to meet with a judge in an ex parte custody hearing. That's right, folks. He tried to pull a fast one. He stated in his petition that I had taken the kids and moved into my mom's house, putting them in danger. Also, he said that I was emotionally and mentally unstable, that I was abusing the kids mentally as well as physically, that I need medication for my bipolar disorder, that I have attempted suicide, that I have confided in him that I wanted to hurt myself and others, and the list goes on. Basically, he was trying to say that I'm as dangerous as a cracked out mother. Yeah. Usually, an ex parte is used when the mother is a crackhead or an alcoholic. Not when she's a stressed out mess.
So, at about three, I get on the stand and testify for about 45 before the judge looks at his lawyer (mine went first) and says that she can't see why there is an emergency and calls the lawyers out of the courtroom. They all discuss it for a bit and come back with the situation we're in, which will last exactly 25 more days.
So, now, I guess I am in my very own "Jon and Kate situation" and my KIDS have exclusive rights to the house. Rifuckingdiculous!
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Friday, October 02, 2009
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Real Entry!
So things are going ok in the love dept. We had a date, but then we realized how broke we both are so he had to cancel. Actually, he has to use to last of his money to pay a ticket. LOL. And I have to use the rest of my money on bills. FAIL! To people
The job front is not looking good. I am up to 48 applications and 6 rejections so far. I am going to start applying to non-pharmacy tech positions.
Kyle called me this morning...uh...yesterday morning now, and said he would distribute my resume' to anybody he could. Unfortunately, one of the people he mentioned has already told me how much I suck. They were my FIRST rejection. But at least I went on an interview with them. Nobody else has even given me that much. I think I may have been rejected from the job in Watson too, though. I've heard nothing. But they really don't need me until April anyway. Here's to hoping. I think Watson is closer to Jessie. I have to look it up. I am geography fail.
The kids are gone again. 4th time? They are going to Eunice again this weekend. They have a birthday party to go to. A third (or fourth?) cousin is turning one. Fun fun.
And that's it
Snip, snap, snout,
this blog's told out.
The job front is not looking good. I am up to 48 applications and 6 rejections so far. I am going to start applying to non-pharmacy tech positions.
Kyle called me this morning...uh...yesterday morning now, and said he would distribute my resume' to anybody he could. Unfortunately, one of the people he mentioned has already told me how much I suck. They were my FIRST rejection. But at least I went on an interview with them. Nobody else has even given me that much. I think I may have been rejected from the job in Watson too, though. I've heard nothing. But they really don't need me until April anyway. Here's to hoping. I think Watson is closer to Jessie. I have to look it up. I am geography fail.
The kids are gone again. 4th time? They are going to Eunice again this weekend. They have a birthday party to go to. A third (or fourth?) cousin is turning one. Fun fun.
And that's it
Snip, snap, snout,
this blog's told out.
Friday, January 30, 2009
On the Up and Up
Got an email from OLOLRMC, and yes, P was right. WTFE. I just had to see. Totally not sweating it.
Got a call from the place in Watson. Yes, mother, I am glad I applied. Got an interview for Monday @ 1.
Kids go to Jackson again this weekend. Will probably spend tonight at a hotel again. Haha. Too bad for him. The things he will do to keep his lie going are amazing. Although, he IS still a man. I laugh. I laugh hard.
If I get the job in Watson, will totally be moving up there. Saw a great little neighborhood close to the store.
I hope that changes the arrangement. I hope that means he can't just come to my house and put them to bed any more. Sounds like a question for el lawyer.
Found out how much I'll be getting back from the federal gov't for taxes and it's a pretty little penny. Can make 3 car payments and still have some to get up to northern MS for "Christmas." And the local tax just might pay for el tattoo. I just have to get the forms. Too bad Brian (the step-dad) doesn't work for LDR any more. That step would be so much easier then. Oh well.
This itchiness has gotten outta control. I wish I knew what was causing it. My skin's not talking.
Totally broke my myspace purge. I had to. I wanted to look at Stan's tattoos. If he's doing my phoenix tattoo, I have to check him out. He's gonna draw it up for me too. Because I say so. Although 8 hours is awfully far to drive for an awesome tattoo done by a friends' S.O. Oh well. I've totally convinced my gma to go with me. Ray Charles Plaza for her, tattoo for me. I bet my mom would love the Riverquarium too. That's not until July, though anyway. I'll have time to save up for all of that. And I'll convince el madre to let me drive. I've driven her Durango around town, I just have to learn to Interstate with it. That could take a while. That thing is el huge! And you thought the Hummer was big. And it still might be, but these wheels are almost as tall as Jayde. And she's no shortie. She's 37", maybe 38" So, these wheels ain't small, by any means. The top of my Avenger, the TOP, comes up to her door, like the middle of her door. OK? And I almost fall out of the thing any time I get out. And getting in? Fahgetabouit! I has to climb in like a kid. She needs running boards like whoa. Oh yes. Durangos are scary creatures. I kid you not.
Mom and Brian are going on vaca starting tonight. It's their anniversary trip. They got married on 02-02-01. I was a Junior in highschool. Seventeen before I got a dad. LMAO. That kills me. It wasn't that funny at the time, but now it is. Don't ask. Oh and Moody Blue (the Avenger) will have been in my possesion for a year by then. And she is totally getting a make over this weekend. I've got the apolstery cleaner and the time, and now she's getting a clean. And then? NO MORE DRIVE THRU IN THE CAR! If we don't have time to get out and eat, we won't be getting it. -sets foot down- I'm putting my foot down.
What else?
Jayde decided she was a cat today, so I made her strip naked. She cried. We talked and now she's decided that she is a little girl. I told her all of the things that cats can't do. You should have seen her face. "No cheese?!" I'm a mean mommy, I know, but it worked. No more cats. It all started because she was dumping coke onto the window seat and licking it up. Gross!
Snip, snap, snout,
this blog's told out!
Got a call from the place in Watson. Yes, mother, I am glad I applied. Got an interview for Monday @ 1.
Kids go to Jackson again this weekend. Will probably spend tonight at a hotel again. Haha. Too bad for him. The things he will do to keep his lie going are amazing. Although, he IS still a man. I laugh. I laugh hard.
If I get the job in Watson, will totally be moving up there. Saw a great little neighborhood close to the store.
I hope that changes the arrangement. I hope that means he can't just come to my house and put them to bed any more. Sounds like a question for el lawyer.
Found out how much I'll be getting back from the federal gov't for taxes and it's a pretty little penny. Can make 3 car payments and still have some to get up to northern MS for "Christmas." And the local tax just might pay for el tattoo. I just have to get the forms. Too bad Brian (the step-dad) doesn't work for LDR any more. That step would be so much easier then. Oh well.
This itchiness has gotten outta control. I wish I knew what was causing it. My skin's not talking.
Totally broke my myspace purge. I had to. I wanted to look at Stan's tattoos. If he's doing my phoenix tattoo, I have to check him out. He's gonna draw it up for me too. Because I say so. Although 8 hours is awfully far to drive for an awesome tattoo done by a friends' S.O. Oh well. I've totally convinced my gma to go with me. Ray Charles Plaza for her, tattoo for me. I bet my mom would love the Riverquarium too. That's not until July, though anyway. I'll have time to save up for all of that. And I'll convince el madre to let me drive. I've driven her Durango around town, I just have to learn to Interstate with it. That could take a while. That thing is el huge! And you thought the Hummer was big. And it still might be, but these wheels are almost as tall as Jayde. And she's no shortie. She's 37", maybe 38" So, these wheels ain't small, by any means. The top of my Avenger, the TOP, comes up to her door, like the middle of her door. OK? And I almost fall out of the thing any time I get out. And getting in? Fahgetabouit! I has to climb in like a kid. She needs running boards like whoa. Oh yes. Durangos are scary creatures. I kid you not.
Mom and Brian are going on vaca starting tonight. It's their anniversary trip. They got married on 02-02-01. I was a Junior in highschool. Seventeen before I got a dad. LMAO. That kills me. It wasn't that funny at the time, but now it is. Don't ask. Oh and Moody Blue (the Avenger) will have been in my possesion for a year by then. And she is totally getting a make over this weekend. I've got the apolstery cleaner and the time, and now she's getting a clean. And then? NO MORE DRIVE THRU IN THE CAR! If we don't have time to get out and eat, we won't be getting it. -sets foot down- I'm putting my foot down.
What else?
Jayde decided she was a cat today, so I made her strip naked. She cried. We talked and now she's decided that she is a little girl. I told her all of the things that cats can't do. You should have seen her face. "No cheese?!" I'm a mean mommy, I know, but it worked. No more cats. It all started because she was dumping coke onto the window seat and licking it up. Gross!
Snip, snap, snout,
this blog's told out!
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